You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown

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“You’re a good man, Charlie Brown” means someone is decent, kind, and genuine, often praised for integrity, consideration, and perseverance. It suggests doing your best, finding happiness in small things, and remaining kind and true, even in adversity. (Google AI)

This definition certainly fits Chuck. Now, I may be biased, but many I spoke with shared similar sentiments about him. Below are some of the comments I received in the days and weeks following Chuck’s death.

Former employers spoke of his passion for cooking and strong work ethic. Sara, the gym receptionist, audibly gasped when I called about Chuck’s death, recalling how he always arrived smiling and happy each morning.

Chuck’s chiropractors expressed how much he meant to them—one prayed for and with him and attended his funeral, while the other enjoyed talking sports, food, and life, especially remembering Chuck’s laugh and smile.

Similarly, Chuck’s physical therapist was shocked by his passing, recalling how hard Chuck worked during sessions and how he enjoyed talking about Philly sports.

This pattern continued with Chuck’s primary care physician, who said Chuck’s visits were like talking to an uncle. Chuck always spoke fondly of his family and his pride in us. His ophthalmologist (also Italian) left a voicemail saying she enjoyed their conversations and that her family loved the food he brought.

Sympathy card after sympathy card echoed those sentiments – reminding me of what an extraordinary man Chuck was and how fortunate I was to have shared 52 years of my life with him. It was easy to love and respect a good man who always put others’ needs before his own. Chuck was the epitome of a good man – not a man without faults or annoyances, but a man who led with his heart, loved unconditionally, and gave all he had.

Below are various comments made on the Facebook posts of my son and daughter.

4 thoughts on “You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown

  1. Rita, such a beautiful tribute to Chuck.

    Tony misses his brother so much, and I miss my brother-in-law so much, too. Just yesterday, Tony was telling me something about the casino, and he randomly said, “I have to call Chuck about the new machine.” We both just froze in time.

    He was a good man, and will never be forgotten.

    Love,

    Joanne. 💛💛

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  2. In my opinion, there is no higher honor than for people to remember your acts of kindness and smiles. May you find some comfort in collecting these memories that describe a man with a jumbo heart.

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