If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you. — A. A. Milne
My husband has been out of work since the beginning of June. In July he was fortunate enough to get some part time work which we hope will develop into a full time position. Needless to say, we spent a great deal of “quality time” together this summer that we don’t ordinarily get to have. While we didn’t get to go on a real vacation since money was tight, we found other ways to entertain ourselves. We got some things done around the house the have been on the “to do” list for quite a while, we watched one too many Lifetime movies, and we laughed a lot.
Chuck and I are high school sweethearts. We have been together almost 44 years – 37 of them married. I really didn’t think it was possible to feel any closer to him than I already did, but this summer we reconnected on another level.
Then this past weekend the bond grew even stronger. We had a little health scare. Chuck felt some tightness in his chest (the result of an uncooperative lawnmower), so we made a trip to the ER. Luckily all his tests came back normal. They kept him overnight for observation, but he got sprung on Sunday.
This was a wake-up call, and now we are on the “straight and narrow” path to healthy living; we’ve been down that path a time or two already! We are getting too old to play games with our health. Our luck will eventually run out.
All I know is that the past four months or so have cemented what I have always felt since the day I met Chuck – I want my hourglass to run out before his, because I cannot imagine living a day without him.